The Pask family from Queensland has launched a determined campaign to raise awareness about men’s mental health and suicide prevention, following the tragic death of their son and brother, auxiliary firefighter Tyler Pask. Aged 32, Mr. Pask ended his life in October, prompting his parents, Andrea and Stuart, and his four younger siblings – Brittany, Ash, Tyarna, and Shaylah – to channel their profound grief into a powerful advocacy movement. Their collective resolve aims to initiate crucial conversations and drive systemic change, ensuring other families do not endure similar losses.

Tyler Pask was widely remembered as a devoted family man, a loving father to his three children, and the “fun uncle” to his ten nieces and nephews. His siblings described him as “the most selfless man,” consistently prioritizing others and making everyone around him feel valued and special. Shaylah, 22, highlighted his unwavering dedication, stating that “nothing was ever too much when it came to those kids,” underscoring his deep commitment to his family.

Originally from Melbourne, Mr. Pask served with distinction as an auxiliary firefighter and communications officer for the Queensland Fire Department across various locations including Maryborough, Rockhampton, and Gracemere. His career in emergency services began at 27, sparked by casual conversations with firefighters while working as a barista in Wide Bay. Brittany, his sister, noted that he was “instantly hooked,” drawn to the profound sense of purpose derived from being a first responder and helping people in distress.

Beyond his professional duties, Tyler Pask was a passionate advocate for men’s mental health for nearly a decade, a commitment ignited by the suicide of his best friend. He actively participated in the global Movember movement, growing a moustache annually to support the cause. Last year, he undertook a significant personal challenge, running 60 kilometres in full firefighting gear to further raise awareness and funds for mental health initiatives.

Mr. Pask was notably open with his family about his own struggles with mental health and his intentions to seek professional assistance. His sister, Shaylah, recalled that while he was “very open about the fact that he was struggling,” he conveyed a sense that he would manage. The family later realised they “didn’t know the extent of it,” a poignant reflection on the often-hidden depths of mental health challenges, even for those who appear to be seeking help.

The Pask family’s advocacy emerges against a backdrop of concerning regional statistics. Data from the Australian Bureau of Statistics indicates that the areas spanning Central Queensland to the Sunshine Coast, including Wide Bay, recorded the state’s second-highest rate of suicide in 2024, surpassed only by Northern Queensland. Furthermore, the Queensland Mental Health Commission reported that men aged 25 to 34 experienced the second-highest suicide rate in the state last year, placing Tyler Pask squarely within a high-risk demographic.

David Facer, managing director of Brave Brothers, a Bundaberg-based grassroots charity dedicated to reducing mental health stigma, highlights the complex factors contributing to these regional challenges. He describes the Wide Bay as a “huge mixing pot” of rural, industrial, agricultural, and fisheries sectors, which creates numerous opportunities for “situational distress.” This diverse socioeconomic landscape often exacerbates mental health vulnerabilities among its male population.

Mr. Facer further explains that isolation poses a significant risk factor for men, particularly in rural settings, where cultural norms often discourage expressing emotional difficulties. Historically, men who have sought support or displayed genuine emotional connections have been perceived as “weak or lesser.” He asserts a critical need to “flip the narrative” and cultivate better listening skills within communities, encouraging men to openly discuss their concerns without fear of judgment.

Inspired by an overwhelming outpouring of support at Tyler’s funeral, where over 1,000 people paid their respects and a full guard of honour was present, the Pask family has solidified its resolve. This profound display of community solidarity galvanized his siblings and parents, transforming their private grief into a united public force dedicated to instigating change across Queensland and beyond.

Looking ahead to 2026, the Pask family plans to extensively share Tyler’s story at various events, including Movember campaigns and Out of the Shadows walks. Their initiatives will encompass fundraising for critical mental health causes and collaborating closely with organisations that provide support specifically to first responders in regional areas. This multi-faceted approach aims to tackle the issue from several angles, amplifying their message.

Brittany Pask articulated the family’s urgent call for change, stressing the importance of creating environments where men like Tyler feel empowered and comfortable seeking support. She emphasised a perceived disparity, stating, “We really want to push for some more help for men who are in this situation because they don’t feel they can talk as openly or be taken as seriously as women.” The family firmly believes that through their efforts, Tyler’s legacy will continue to save lives.

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Keywords: Men's mental health, suicide prevention, Queensland firefighters, Pask family advocacy, Wide Bay suicide rates, first responder mental health, Movember awareness, mental health stigma